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Dear Young Man,

VVomen exist because of men.

They shave off their eye brows and draw lines with eye pencil, they go for BBL, they pump their breaast, they invest heavily into make up and cosmetics, they use va**na tightner, they use eye lense, they fix eye lashes, they spend more than their income on wigs;

All these for what? Just to attract men but the same vvomen will insvlt me whenever I say MAN IS THE PRIZE.

How many men have you seen going through all these just to attract a vvoman? None, you hardly see men take photos of their ass and post on social media, you won't see a man wearing make up even at 60years old, you hardly see men twerking on TikTok or in the club, you hardly see men asking for child support or half of a vvoman's property after divorce.

Again, Man is the Prize. men are the reason vvomen are living in this life, vvomen exist because of men, vvomen are nothing without men, the purpose of vvoman on this earth is to keep the man company. Don't allow any deluded vvoman to deceive and manipulate you, you're the man and you're the Prize.

Any vvoman that disagrees that man is not the prize is not worthy of any man commitment, she is indirectly letting you know she is a feminist, she is not submissive and no man should have business with an unsubmissive vvoman.

You are the price....

Attract don't waste your time and resources chasing them..

Stay wise..

Fik

Women are ruthless with their standards; a broke woman will never want to end up with a broken man.

Women don't pity men, especially if he is broke; they have no mercy on broke men, and this is part of the reason why they always win in the game of relationships. Their ruthlessness in judging men harshly by their standards without mercy is key.

Women put themselves first; their happiness and peace are everything before any man; they don't care what happens to the man; they don't care about his feelings. As long as they are happy and peaceful, then it's good for them.

Men, on the other hand, are weaklings when it comes to keeping to their standards; unlike women who hardly compromise, men compromise and consider things a lot.

Men pity women too much and have a soft spot for them, and this is part of the reason why they are more widows than they are widower.

A man will place his woman first, her happiness and peace first before his own, and most times, this ends up becoming his downfall because women torment men who pedestalize them.

Men take all the risks in relationships or marriage, they are selfless more than women.

A man will see certain dangerous red flags in women and still decides to keep the woman, hoping that she will change or she can manage, only to find out later that he has made a gracious mistake that will destroy him.

If you are a man reading this, my words for you are that you become as ruthless as women, judge them harshly, have standards that protect your peace, happiness, and comfort first, and follow them tenaciously.

It's the woman's way.

Be strong minded my brother.😎

Your age-mates and those who are younger than you are in their homes cooking for their husbands making every moment count gwe you’re in ur single bedroom apartment lying on your bed scrolling useless ticktock videos, drowning in misery because of the unrealistic standards you set for yourself.

Mbu “I don’t date single fathers, I don’t date short men … I don’t date banyankole, bagisu men…nio nio…” how far will you go with these silly standards. Who are you?

Now I boldly tell you, drop them standards now.
You’re single, depressed and aging because of the burden u put on your lazy shoulders.

Get a grip.

You're not h***y,
You're lonely.

You're not lonely,
You're depressed.

You're not depressed,
You lack purpose.

Find a meaningful purpose in life

Ki kyolifa tewelabide?

Dear Young Man,

Stop dating liability.

1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to visit someone that she claims she love. (liability)

2. A lady who can't get you birthday or valentine gift but expect you to bring down the world for her during hers.
(liability)

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on the phone for 5 minutes.
Always flashing, complaining and requesting for data and airtime...(liability)

4. I wonder how some Men cope with ladies that think a relationship is an occupation where she's supposed to be paid and taken care of??
(S*x is not a benefit to only men, such a girl is a (liability).

5. Stop dating a liability no matter how beautiful she is.
Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content!
Date a lady who can add something meaningful to your life.
Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

6. Date someone who's capable of managing multiplying whatever she has and the ones you give to her, your soul will be at peace! Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

7. I'm not saying she must be rich.
But let her have something doing no matter how little it is because no matter how much money you make, she must be able to assist you during the rainy days...

Two good heads are better than one.

Stay wise..