GOAL Toastmasters Club

Can we become too polished?

Technology can help us become clearer, more accurate, and more effective communicators. AI can help us organize ideas, edit our writing, clean up recordings, and eliminate mistakes.

Those are good things.

But somewhere between careless communication and manufactured perfection, we need to preserve something essential:

Our voice.

Years ago, a recording-studio owner told me they were looking for “voices that have scars on them”—voices recognizable as human.

That phrase has stayed with me.

Authenticity requires vulnerability. Real people stumble over words, pause, laugh at themselves, tell stories in which they aren't the hero, and occasionally have a hair out of place.

The goal isn't mediocrity. The goal is excellence that remains recognizably human.

In the expanded Substack version, I also offer practical suggestions for writers, speakers, podcasters, YouTubers, and other creators who want to use AI and new technologies without surrendering their own voices.

Read and join the conversation:
https://tomsims.substack.com/p/can-we-become-too-polished

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Use the tools. Learn the craft. Get clearer. Get better.

But don't polish away the person.

Leave a few scars on the voice.

Technology can help us become clearer, more accurate, and more polished.

But can we become too polished?

In this reflection, I talk about speaking, writing, Toastmasters, artificial intelligence, and something a recording-studio owner told me years ago. He said they were looking for “voices that have scars on them”—voices recognizable as human.

That idea seems even more important today.

AI can help us edit. Technology can remove the pauses, stumbles, filler words, awkward phrasing, and imperfections. Much of that is useful. I use these tools myself.

But I don't want to polish away the person.

Human communication includes vulnerability. Sometimes we stumble over a word. Sometimes we pause. Sometimes we laugh at ourselves, correct ourselves, and keep going.

So use the tools. Learn the craft. Count the ums and ahs. Check the facts. Get clearer. Get better.

But leave a few scars on the voice.

Read the full essay on Medium:
https://medium.com//voices-with-scars-on-them-062b70efeb46?sk=d94eebe9537fd3451624a23e134fce94

More from Tom Sims:
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Great tips. Apply each change as needed, see results with your presentations

On July 20, 1968, approximately 1,000 athletes gathered at Soldier Field in Chicago for the first International Special Olympics Summer Games.

Years later, I was invited to offer the invocation at a large Special Olympics event. I prayed—but the words that remained with me were spoken by the athletes:

“Let me win. But if I cannot win, let me be brave in the attempt.”

Watching their enthusiasm, commitment and courage—and seeing the pride and joy of their families—taught me something important about winning.

Victory is not always finishing first. Sometimes victory is showing up, giving your best and refusing to surrender to fear.

Read “Brave in the Attempt: The Special Olympics and the Best of America”:

https://medium.com//brave-in-the-attempt-the-special-olympics-and-the-best-of-america-946ff5a7fee9?sk=2be22a00a30ce46be0ca3457aeec27c3

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Have you ever walked away from a sermon, lecture, or conversation thinking, "That was good," but struggled to connect it with your own life?

As a teacher, preacher, writer, and coach, I've spent years assuming that if I presented a principle clearly, thoughtful people would make the connections for themselves.

I still believe that... mostly.

But experience has led me to ask a difficult question:

**Do I have to spell it out?**

In this video, I introduce that question and explore the tension between respecting our audience's ability to think and helping them recognize when timeless principles apply to today's choices.

📖 **Read the original Medium essay:**

https://medium.com//do-i-have-to-spell-it-out-8e9c4ebeeb0d?sk=39184309a3a5d3f4d0730fa8dc662bbb

📚 **Read the expanded Substack edition (including subscriber resources, reflection questions, discussion guides, and practical tools for moving from principle to practice):**

https://tomsims.substack.com/p/do-i-have-to-spell-it-out

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WRITE NOW, RIGHT NOW: Four Directions for Finding Something Worth Writing
One of the questions writers ask more than almost any other is, "What do I write when I don't know what to write?"

My answer has become very simple.
Don't wait. Write.

If you've been around this group very long, you've heard me say it many times:

Writers write.
They don't always write brilliantly.
They don't always write for hours.
They don't always feel inspired.
But they write something.

This morning reminded me why.

I wasn't reading anyone else's work. I wasn't in a meeting. I wasn't listening to a podcast. I was simply beginning my day—moving through my morning routine, paying attention to what was happening in me and around me, making mental notes, and dictating ideas before they disappeared.

Before long, I had several things worth exploring.

It occurred to me that I have a process. You don't have to follow it in this order, but it has become a reliable way for me to discover something worth writing.
Look In
Begin with yourself.
What are you feeling?
What are you thinking?
What memories keep resurfacing?
What questions won't leave you alone?
Writing often begins with paying honest attention to your own life.
Look Around
Pay attention.
Really pay attention.
This morning I noticed my dog.
Watching him led me to reflect on faithfulness, routine, companionship, and contentment. A simple observation became the beginning of a piece of writing.
The ordinary world is full of stories waiting to be noticed.
Look Up
For me, this means looking toward God.
For you, it may mean looking beyond yourself toward truth, beauty, wisdom, purpose, or whatever enlarges your perspective.
Leave room for inspiration that comes from beyond your immediate experience.
Look Down
Years ago I walked outside with nothing more than my phone.
Instead of photographing sunsets or mountains, I started taking pictures of blades of grass, weeds, cracks in sidewalks, and tiny flowers.

I discovered beauty where I had stopped looking.
Sometimes inspiration is literally beneath your feet.
So when you don't know what to write, don't panic.

Look in.
Look around.
Look up.
Look down.

One of those directions will almost always lead you somewhere worth exploring.

And remember...
Don't wait.
Write now.
Right now.

I've expanded this idea into a full Voices Heard article, "The Four Directions of Discovery: A Practical Way to Find Something Worth Writing," complete with practical exercises, a seven-day writing challenge, and ideas for building your own Discovery Notebook.

Read it here:
https://tomsims.substack.com/p/the-four-directions-of-discovery

A Gift for Members of Write Now, Right Now

Because you're part of this writing community, I'd also like to share the complete Four Directions of Discovery Resource Bundle.

It includes:
📓 Printable Discovery Notebook
🧭 One-Page Quick Reference
📅 Seven-Day Discovery Challenge
❓ Fifty Discovery Questions
🔖 Four Directions Bookmark
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📱 Phone Lock Screen Reminder

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I hope these resources encourage you to develop the habit of noticing before you write.

I'd love to hear what you discover.

Which direction are you going to explore today—Look In, Look Around, Look Up, or Look Down?

Follow Me | Sometimes Following Jesus Means Simply Staying Near
We often hear Jesus' words, "Follow me," as a call to action, mission, and service. They certainly are that. But there is another dimension we sometimes overlook.
An old dog reminded me that following someone you love isn't always about going somewhere. Sometimes it's simply about being near.
This short reflection explores discipleship as presence before performance, abiding before activity.
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