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Choice Mom | Certified Coach | Certified Fertile Body Therapist
09/30/2026
I spent so long focused on the hard parts of this journey that I never stopped to imagine what the joy on the other side would actually feel like.
The mama mama mama. The unprompted I love yous. The arms that reach for you and only you. Being there for every single first because you were never going to miss any of them.
And after everything it took to get here- the failed cycles, the injections, the waiting, the moments I wasn't sure I could keep going, not a single moment is taken for granted.
If you are considering this path and the fear of doing it alone is what is holding you back — swipe through. This one is for you. 🤍
Full story in Choice Mom — link in bio.
I talk a lot about why I chose this path. And I mean every word of it. 🤍
But I would not be doing right by this community if I only ever told one side of the story.
Solo motherhood by choice is not for everyone. And knowing that before you start is just as important as knowing your why.
Think carefully before choosing this path if…
1️⃣ You are doing it because you are afraid of being alone
A child will fill your life but they will not fill that void. That is too much pressure to place on a child before they even arrive.
2️⃣ You are not financially ready and have no clear plan
Fertility treatments, donor s***m, raising a child as the sole provider — it requires real stability. Going in without that adds a weight that is genuinely hard to carry.
3️⃣ You have no support system and no plan to build one
Solo does not mean alone. But you need people around you. Without a village this path will be lonelier than it needs to be.
4️⃣ You are choosing this hoping a partner will come along after
You may find love. Many women do. But you need to be at peace with raising this child alone for longer than you planned — because that is the reality you need to be ready for.
5️⃣ You are choosing this because you think you should — not because you truly want it
Your life will change completely. Your schedule. Your freedom. Your time for yourself. A baby does not automatically make everything feel happy and complete. It is a lot of work and a lot of sacrifice. You need to want this more than you want the life you currently have.
This is not me trying to talk you out of it. If this is truly your path you will know.
But if any of these landed then drop a ❤️
If you’re struggling with making the decision grab a copy of the book Choice Mom- link in bio
09/23/2026
So excited to share that my article is now live on
First Time Parent
Before you stop swiping. Before you research donors. Before you tell your family. There is one question you need to answer first.
Why do I want to be a mother?
Your why is everything on this journey. It is what gets you through the hard days, the failed cycles, and the moments you wonder if you can keep going.
Head to the link in my bio to read the full article.
And save this if you are just starting to consider this path.
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