GypsySpirit

Almost 7 years ago my whole world changed. Heartbreak, divorce, being cheated on.

All of it shapes how you see yourself. You feel unworthy, broken, ashamed. You wonder how on earth you’re going to get through it.

For a long time that changed how I saw myself. And for a while I set up camp there. But not for too long because I was done with letting someone else’s behaviour decide how I felt about myself. And I was the only one who could do something about it.

So I learnt self-love and self-worth. Not the Instagram bubble bath kind. Real self-love. I learnt my value and I learnt that it had to come from me. Not from trying to find it in someone else who probably didn’t even value themselves.

What’s something heartbreak or a break up has taught you? 👇

There was a time I thought every single one of these things meant I’d failed.

Looking back, they were the moments that changed my life the most.

Sometimes what feels like falling apart is actually life redirecting you somewhere you never expected to go.

Which “failure” ended up becoming a gift for you?
Let me know in the comments 👇