RKCON Riders DLM

Imagine you’re rowing a boat across a river.
Suddenly, another boat crashes into yours.
You get angry and shout: “Watch where you’re going!”
But then you notice…
👉 The other boat is empty.
Instantly, your anger disappears. There’s no one to blame.
The theory says:
We get angry not because of the event, but because we believe there is a person behind it.
If you see the “boat” (the other person) as empty—meaning:
No intention to harm
No personal attack
Just circumstances
👉 Your anger naturally dissolves.
💡 What It Means in Real Life
1. Don’t take things personally
When someone is rude, ignores you, or behaves badly:
Maybe they are stressed, unaware, or struggling.
It’s not always about you.
2. Reduce ego reactions
Our ego says: “How dare they do this to me!”
Empty boat thinking says:
👉 “Maybe there is no ‘attack’ at all.”
3. Stay emotionally calm
Instead of reacting:
Pause
Observe
Let go
🧘 Simple Everyday Example
Someone cuts you off in traffic
→ Normal reaction: anger
→ Empty boat mindset: Maybe they didn’t see me… let it go
A colleague doesn’t reply
→ Normal: He is ignoring me
→ Empty boat: He may be busy or overwhelmed
⚖️ Important Balance
This doesn’t mean:
Accepting injustice
Allowing repeated bad behavior
It simply means: 👉 Don’t waste emotional energy on unnecessary reactions
🌿 One-Line Wisdom
“If there is no one in the boat, there is no one to be angry at.”

Evryone wants to 'prove', no one wants to 'improve' ..this can be problem of human, but not God. God loves evryone equally.

Last week 13 to 15 Aug, were blessed days, as we were in Vrindavan..but just a few days and the separation is hurting 😭

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