The Safe Place

Good morning lovelies. Please can anyone suggest a healthy breakfast for me?

I am on my way to 65kg 😂

Sometimes the sãddest thing about unhëaled pain is that it hürts people who had nothing to do with the original wound.

Some people speak about women suff€ring in marriage as though it is a normal part of womanhood.

They can list mothers, sisters, aunties, and neighbors they know who are suff€ring, yet they rarely stop to ask why süffering has become so common that it is now treated as a marital requirement.

Mid-sem break is here! A perfect opportunity for parents to slow down, create fun memories, strengthen bonds, and enjoy quality time with their children. These moments matter.

Asking why a div0rc€d woman is jüdged more h@rshly than a div0rced man is not changing the scriptures.

Asking why a woman is often blamed for a fãiled marriage while a man's role is overlooked is not changing the scriptures.

Asking why society excuses certain behaviors in men but c0ndemns the same behaviors in women is not changing the scriptures.

I saw a post where a man expressed ang€r because his wife didn't tell him "thank you" for bathing their kids.

See what I have to say in the CS

Why does society judge women more harshly than men?

See some reasons in the CS and please drop yours.

Sis, if a man leaves, let him go.

Do not spend months or years chasing someone who has already decided not to stay.

Your dignity is too valuable to be traded for someone's attention. Your peace is too precious to be sacrificed on the altar of rejection.

Not every goodbye is a l0ss. Some goodbyes are redirections.

The goal is not to make someone regr€t leaving. The goal is to build a life so full, healthy, and meaningful that you no longer need validation from the people who walked away.

A few women have stopped me recently to say, "You're glowing."

Each time, I smiled and said thank you, but it got me thinking.

Sometimes, what people call a glow is really peace.

Sometimes, it is the absence of constant stress.

Sometimes, it is finally sleeping through the night.

Sometimes, it is no longer carrying burdens that were never yours to carry.