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I love s*x. A LOT.

But my husband barely desires it.

He has never been the type to initiate or tell me he’s h***y. Most times, if I want s*x, I have to ask for it.

Before we got married, I actually considered leaving because I was scared I would be s*xually unhappy in the marriage.

But my mum told me, “Sex is not enough reason to leave a good man.”

So I stayed.

We’ve been married for over two years now, and after the wedding, I quickly realised how different we were.

He would want s*x maybe once every two weeks. When I eventually asked him about it, he told me that s*x was mainly for making babies.

So whenever I wanted it, he would simply say no and tell me we would have it when we were ready to have a child.

I agreed.

Thank God we eventually had a child.

But after that? Nothing.

For about 13 months now, we haven’t had s*x. And honestly, I don’t even care anymore. I got tired of feeling like I was forcing myself on my own husband.

Sometimes I wonder if I should have listened to myself before getting married. The hardest part is that the person who convinced me to stay my mumis no longer alive.

I have so many moments where I wish I could sit with her and ask, “Mummy, what do I do now?”

I feel completely lost.

And now, I’ve started talking to someone online. We’ve gotten close, and we’re planning to meet soon.

I know I’m married.

I know this isn’t exactly the situation I imagined for myself. But after being s*xually rejected for so long, a part of me just wants to feel wanted again.

I have been starved of intimacy for over a year, and I honestly don’t know how much longer I can pretend it doesn’t bother me.

Maybe I should have left before the marriage.

Maybe I should have listened to my mum.

Or maybe she was wrong when she told me s*x wasn’t enough reason to walk away.

I genuinely don’t know anymore.

But one thing I know is this: Being married to someone you love while feeling completely unwanted by them can be a very lonely kind of marriage. What would you do if you were me?

A friend sent this to me and asked for honest opinions. I promised to keep her anonymous.

Okay na

Her brother died waiting for ₦950,000 needed for surgery.

A week later, relatives spent over ₦8 million on the burial with lots of attire to match and even a live musician.

At the reception, she stood up and asked why nobody found money when he was alive.

Unfortunately, half of the family still refuses to speak to her till date.