Bellah Styles

I like many other moms know what it’s like to have to compete for privacy time in your own bathroom. Especially when the kids are little and they just walk in. 🤦🏾‍♀️

I had to laugh about this very real mommy moment from this video, because I completely get it! Whether it’s your bathroom or some other part of your day,
your time may not feel like your own as a mom.

What are the steps you are putting into place to secure that personal time to focus on you and your needs?

I usually like to start there. Yes, I can help you build out your wardrobe and address your style needs, but you have GOT to make the time for it!

Your weekend starts today and for my busy moms, here are a few steps you can start with:

Weekend Todo’s

1. Secure your YOU time! (Date & Time)
2. Think about what you need to replenish your soul during that time, and do it!
3. Then think about the version of you, who gets to prioritize your self-care time more often, what are you now able to do?

Finding a sense of self outside of your motherly routine isn’t always easy, especially when you add in your hectic life on top of that.

On the flip side the more you continue to make time and set the necessary boundaries, the more your self care time increases.

The more you make time for your self care the more you can consider the things that you often never get to or dismiss, wardrobe included.

Comment below if you are taking some well needed self care time this weekend? ⬇️

I know I am!!🥰

You are an original! So let’s discover what works for you!

At this point I’m sure you have a favorite creator whose style you love. We all seek inspiration and that’s ok. It’s great seeing some fresh outfit combinations and it helpful when you want to get some inspiration for your own outfit ideas.

Now inspiration is one thing, but comparison is the thief of joy!

I see it all the time where it starts with, I like her outfit, then quickly leads to;

Oh, I can’t pull that off
My body is not like hers
Why can’t I get it together like she does
Etc.

Before you know it, you’ve gone down the depressive rabbit hole! The challenge comes in because you are trying to potentially relate to someone whose lifestyle is nothing like yours.

She may be a mom, but does she have your kids, have your job, run your errands like you do, etc? Probably not!

Let’s get to the root of your actual wardrobe needs.

Yes your favorite creators’ outfits look great, but you can look great too, without the copy and paste approach.

Clarity isn’t copying! It’s about figuring out what works for you personally and being clear on why.

No more comparing, let’s take it a step further this season and nail down your personal style with certainty!

Hi ladies, so one of these is true for you. Your summer break for your kids is almost over or you’ve already started your kids school year routine. So what’s next?

How are you making sure to maintain a sense of self while still getting it all done. The mommy question of the day!!

Well, it all comes down to the standards you are creating for yourself in the beginning.

🥰 What does your protective time look like?

💕Where are the moments throughout your week, when you get to say YES to you?

💃🏽How do you want to confidently show up with your wardrobe minus the self doubt or the dismissal of it being important?

Comment below, ⬇️ I’m sure there’s things you are eager to change this new school year, that can improve your process of self care and style care.

Trust your ideas, dreams and visions. It’s never random!🥰It’s more connected to you than you think! 💕💃🏽

Sometimes your next opponent is you!

It starts with the things that you tell yourself about yourself.

Going through changes to your body requires, patience, kindness and a lot of positive self talk. You can easily become your own worst critic. Especially if you aren’t achieving your intended goals.

🤔What are the things that you are telling yourself in the midst of your transitions?

🤔What thoughts are stopping you from being able to create the wardrobe that you need in the stage that you are currently in?

Don’t let your wardrobe uncertainty make you stagnant or stop you from shining like you should be this summer.

Click the link in bio and schedule your style discovery call. Let’s talk about moving forward with your style and wardrobe, while in your transitional stages.

Comment below if you can relate to the feeling of not knowing what’s next for you and your wardrobe. ⬇️

Have you gotten trapped with the same outfit combinations and have currently been longing to switch up your look this season?

Well..you are not alone!

As the weather begins to get warmer the idea of trying something different within your wardrobe also ignites.

Implementing little changes is a great way for you to explore your wardrobe options as a busy mom.

So what are you going to work on this weekend that can add variety to your wardrobe without feeling overwhelming?

It’s a perfect time to test out your options. If you feel like it’s a bit of a challenge, you can always schedule your style discovery call and let’s chat. Link in bio.

Comment below if you plan to explore your outfit combinations this weekend and switch a few outfits up.⬇️

The goal is to not over think your wardrobe choices during the week because you are taking the right steps to prep now. Therefore no thought needed just ex*****on on the outfits you created prior.

This planner is to help my busy mom’s start their week off, both structured and organized when it comes down to their wardrobe preparation for the week.

You can download your copy today by commenting, “Plan” or “Planner” below.

Let’s get prepped for your upcoming week! This is also a great chance for you to start off this Summer with a process in place.

Get you copy today! 💐

Happy Mother’s Day ladies wishing you a wonderful day, for you and your family.

I also want to acknowledge all of those who have lost their mom or have lost a child. Although Mother’s Day is a celebratory day, it may also be a tough day for you as well.

I just want to let you know that you are loved and supported. May you hold onto those beautiful memories you have created with your loved ones. I hope that brings you joy for today!

💐 Happy Mother’s Day!

Hi ladies!

One thing you are not going to do this Spring/ Summer season is beat yourself up. Especially regarding the pieces that no longer fit. Yes, in life we outgrow things and sometimes we outgrow pieces within our wardrobe too, but that shouldn’t stop you from learning how to pivot and figure out what’s next for your wardrobe.

Are you aware of what steps you should be taking to better align your wardrobe to not only the woman you are now, but to your specific body type, and your vision and goals that you have for yourself.

This is a perfect time to press pause and assess and if you need help book your style discovery call and let’s talk!

Have you ran into any challenges with your wardrobe this season? If so send me a dm or click the link in my bio and schedule your call today!