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When did the spouse beside you start feeling like the person across from you? Who is keeping score in your house? How much do you want to get your way?

Paul wrote Philippians 2:1–4 to a healthy church that had quietly stopped working like a team. Marriage is the smallest Christian community. It comes apart the same way. And the word Paul chose for humility would have sounded like an insult. Read or watch to discover how these four verses give us clear direction.

Paying Interest Philippians 2:1-4 — Newstart Church | Delaware, Ohio When did the spouse beside you start feeling like the person across from you? Paul wrote Philippians 2:1–4 to a healthy church that had quietly stopped working like a team. Marriage is the smallest Christian community. It comes apart the same way. And the word Paul chose for humility would have so...

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Jesus did not simply heal one man that day. He showed us the direction of the Kingdom.
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He Reached Out, Matthew 8:1-4 — Newstart Church | Delaware, Ohio Every one of us knows someone who cannot imagine that God would ever move toward them. So let us be the people who take the first step. Let us cross the street, the office, the neighborhood, the lunch table, or the family divide. Because every time we move toward someone with the hope of Christ, we

I was tired, literally and emotionally. I had been ill for years. My symptoms kept increasing, yet the doctors still had no answers. People were incredibly kind, checking in on me and offering support. But sometimes, I wished they didn't have so many suggestions.

The worst symptom for me was the insomnia. By that point, it had been going on for nearly a year, and I can assure you, I had tried everything: staying on a schedule, winding down before bed, avoiding screen time, keeping the room cool, cutting off caffeine after 1 pm…the list went on and on. There was rarely a suggestion I hadn't already heard, and even fewer that I hadn't already tried. Over time, I grew weary of people still trying to fix it.

Then one day, I sat down on a park swing with a close friend and shared some of what I was carrying. Between the illness and family challenges, life felt overwhelming. She paused, looked at me, and simply said, "I'm so sorry, Kristin. That really sucks." And we just kept swinging.

In that moment, I felt more heard, more understood, and more loved than I had in a long time. She acknowledged the difficulty without trying to solve it. She didn't offer advice or suggest another remedy. She simply sat with me. And in that moment, her presence eased my burden more than any solution ever could.

Why are we so quick to provide solutions when someone comes to us with a challenge? Why do we feel compelled to explain, advise, or fix? Why do we often rush to understanding a problem rather than simply being present in it?

In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus returned twice to find His friends sleeping while He prayed. Earlier He had told them, "My soul is crushed with grief to the point of death" (Matthew 26:38). Jesus wasn't asking them to solve His suffering. He wasn't looking for answers. He simply wanted His friends to stay awake, keep watch, and be present with Him in His darkest hour.

There is much we can learn from Jesus here. If anyone faced a burden beyond human comprehension, it was Him. Yet what He desired from His closest friends was not advice or solutions, but companionship. He wanted them to pray with Him, remain near Him, and share His sorrow.

Archbishop Rowan Williams reflected on Jesus' final night before the cross:

"When Jesus gives thanks at that moment before the breaking and spilling, before the wounds and the blood, it is as if He is connecting the darkest places of human experience with God the Giver; as if He is saying that even in these dark places God continues to give, and therefore we must continue to give thanks."

Jesus teaches us how to suffer, how to grieve, and ultimately how to sacrifice. Yet He also demonstrates something profoundly human: the need for compassion, friendship, and presence. On the eve of the greatest suffering He would ever endure, Jesus simply wanted His friends to be with Him.

The story continues with Jesus acknowledging that one friend would betray Him and the others would abandon Him in His trial. And yet, knowing all of this, He continued to love them. So why do we struggle to do the same for those around us?

What would it look like if, when our spouse shared a challenge at work, we resisted the urge to immediately solve it? What if, when our child talked about a disagreement with a friend, we focused first on understanding their feelings rather than offering advice? What if, instead of searching for the perfect answer, we embraced the power of simply being present?

Sometimes the most meaningful thing we can do for someone we love is to sit with them in the discomfort. Not to explain it away. Not to offer a list of solutions. Just to be there; to listen, to empathize, and to remind them they are not alone.

There's a children's book called The Rabbit Listened that beautifully illustrates this idea. A little boy named Taylor builds a tower, only to watch it come crashing down. One by one, different animals appear with suggestions for how he should respond. Some want him to talk about it, others want him to get angry, and still others want him to move on. But none of their solutions help.

Then the rabbit arrives.

The rabbit doesn't offer advice. He doesn't tell Taylor what to do or how to feel. He simply sits beside him. As Taylor works through his anger, sadness, frustration, and eventual resolve, the rabbit remains present. He doesn't judge. He doesn't fix. He just loves. What would it look like if we did the same for the people in our lives?

How much comfort could we bring if, instead of rushing to solve someone's pain, we simply acknowledged it? What if we chose to sit with those we love in their struggle, offering the gift of our presence as they find their way through?

Perhaps one of the greatest gifts we can give another person is the assurance that they do not have to suffer alone. When someone shares their hurt, they are not always asking us for answers. Often, they are simply asking us to stay, to listen, and to care; To remain beside them in the uncertainty.

Jesus modeled this for us. In His darkest hour, He invited His friends to be present with Him. And while they fell short, His invitation remains a lesson for us today. We may not be able to take away another person's pain, but we can enter into it with compassion. We can bear witness to their struggle. We can remind them, through our presence, that they are loved.

Sometimes the most Christ-like response is not found in the wisdom we offer, but in the quiet faithfulness of simply staying near. In a world eager to fix, explain, and move on, perhaps we are called to something different: to sit with one another in both joy and sorrow, reflecting the heart of a Savior who never leaves us alone.

The Ministry of Presence — Newstart Church | Delaware, Ohio Why Presence Is More Powerful Than Advice I was tired, literally and emotionally. I had been ill for years. My symptoms kept increasing, yet the doctors still had no answers. People were incredibly kind, checking in on me and offering support. But sometimes, I wished they didn't have so many sugges

We are saddened to share that Frank Neff, a member of Newstart, passed away yesterday morning at the age of 86. Please join us in praying for his wife, Anita, his daughter, Shelli Ledford, and their entire family as they grieve this loss. May they know God’s peace, comfort, and presence in the days ahead.

The family would like to invite you to celebrate Frank’s life by attending his service this Saturday, July 18, at 2:00 PM at Newstart.