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How do you react when things don’t go your way? When someone cuts you off in traffic, when your plans are interrupted, when a coworker says something irritating—does frustration rise quickly in your heart? Do you find yourself easily angered, sharp in your words or attitude?

In 1 Corinthians 13:5, we are reminded that love “is not provoked,” or as some translations put it, love is not irritable or easily angered. It’s easy to read that and assume we already live it out, but the reality is, we often equate our natural tendencies with the standard God has given us. We may exercise self-control outwardly, but inside, we’re still annoyed, still keeping track of offenses, still allowing irritation to take root. God’s love—true, Christlike love—doesn’t operate that way.

Patience isn’t something we can manufacture on our own. It isn’t about gritting our teeth and forcing a pleasant attitude. What Scripture describes here is supernatural. It is a work of the Spirit in a life submitted to Christ. A heart that understands the patience and grace of God will extend that same patience and grace to others. If we’re easily provoked, it may be a sign that we are living in our own strength instead of walking by the Spirit.

That doesn’t mean love is never stirred to anger. Scripture shows us that Paul was provoked in his spirit when he saw the idolatry in Athens. Jesus Himself displayed righteous anger at the hypocrisy in the temple. Love is not passive or indifferent to sin. But the kind of provocation Paul warns against in 1 Corinthians 13 is not about righteous anger—it’s about self-focused agitation. It’s the kind of irritability that flares up when our personal expectations aren’t met, when our comfort is disturbed, or when others fail to treat us the way we think they should.

Selfish irritation is the opposite of the love of God. Love is patient because it is not self-seeking. It extends grace because it remembers the grace it has received. It doesn’t respond to inconvenience or frustration with sharpness, but with kindness.

Hello OneWay family!

We’re excited to kick off our Wednesday OneWay breakout sessions TOMORROW night at 7:30 PM! 🙌

For this upcoming quarter, we will no longer be meeting on Fridays. Instead, we’ll be gathering EVERY Wednesday at 7:30 PM.

Get ready for a powerful time as we dive into the Word and grow deeper in our understanding of God’s blueprint for living as overcomers.

We can’t wait to see you there! 🔥📖