Aaron Abernathy

Has your love ever felt like a threat to someone’s avoidance?

Has your truth ever been mistaken for an attack?

Tag a truth-teller who loves with courage…even when the elephant in the room roars back.
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The elephant in the room never stay quiet ☝🏿
The closer love gets to the heart, the louder unresolved wounds become.

If the pain isn’t addressed, I promise it will trample even the best intentions.

Have you ever loved someone who wasn’t ready to confront their elephant?

Tag someone who knows the cost of avoiding it!
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Have you ever been wounded by your own emotional maturity?

Tag someone who feels too deeply in a shallow world 🙏🏿♥️
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Sometimes God doesn’t just grow you… He grows you out of what you built in survival mode.

That relationship… That career…
That version of you that made sense in insecurity won’t hold the version of you rooted in wholeness.

It’s okay to outgrow the pillars that once held you…
That’s what healing does.
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Insecurity isn’t just a feeling…It’s a detour.
A stronghold that redirects your life away from what’s divine 🙏🏿

Ever looked back and realized you were in a room, a relationship, or a role that God never sent you to?
Yeah… me too 🤦🏿‍♂️

Healing starts when we stop letting insecurity write our itinerary…

Let God lead you back home 🏡

Tag someone who’s breaking free from places they never belonged.

Healing isn’t just about solitude… It’s about learning who can love you before the paint dries.

Would you let someone tour your heart while it’s still under renovation?

How would you answer…

The version of someone still rebuilding… still doubting… still growing… still becoming…

Are you willing to sit with what’s not yet healed
in yourself or someone else?
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From my heart 🖤 to the hearts of my people 🖤

Love,

Aaron Abernathy
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Both polls leaned toward support…Yet I’m still left wondering:

Why do platonic friendships with the opposite s*x,
spaces meant for safety and support…
sometimes stir strain instead of strength?

Is it trust? Insecurity? Or the boundaries we never talked about?

I’d love to hear your insight… especially if you’ve lived both sides.

Drop your thoughts below…
This conversation matters more than the vote!
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Why do platonic friendships with the opposite s*x,
sometimes stir strain instead of strength?

Does a man’s platonic friendship with a woman support or strain his romantic relationship?

Mom’s rules weren’t loud…but they lasted!

My parents’ marriage wasn’t magic… It was made with work, warmth, and wisdom.

This list won’t go viral… but if you live it… it might just make your love last ♥️

Drop a heart ♥️ if one of Mama’s rules felt like it was written for you… and tag a friend if they need em too! 🫂
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Well, would you?…And if the answer’s no… what would need to change?

Relationships begin within. The way you love yourself sets the tone for how others will!



WOULD YOU MARRY YOURSELF?