RecollectedSelf

In harmful relationships you’ll see a drastic shift in their presentation when being observed (at parties, holiday gatherings, work events). This is more evidence that they DO HAVE SELF CONTROL. They just only apply it when it benefits them.

It feels like that sometimes 😆

In toxic relationships , name calling gets normalized. Trying to figure out what’s actual normal in a healthy relationship is incredible hard when all you’ve known is mistreatment.

If they only knew how much UM traumatized me 😂