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Episode 35 — The Truth in Triggers - LIVE TODAY!
Triggers can feel like an unwanted intruder that hold us hostage to their relentless control over us. And this becomes even more difficult when our responses are entangled with the triggers with the people close to us. Although learning how survival plays out is important and part of the awareness journey, there comes a point when we have to explore even further – and understand the root that causes the trigger to begin with. Our system is programmed – it only knows whether we are safe or feel insecure or unsafe. And over time, it cannot tell the difference between what’s happening now versus what is trapped in our past memory bank.
Thus, as much as don’t like it, triggers give us a road map. They begin to paint a picture of what we’ve been through and can help begin to unlock the chambers of what’s buried within.
This week, we’re going beyond how we get triggered and how we survive. We’re looking at the why—the original root beneath the response.
This is the remarkable truth of trauma, it is trying to protect us when in actuality we can learn new ways of managing the past hurt and create a culture of love, grace and safety. Is it easy? Not at all. It takes awareness, kindness, regulation tools and deep courage. But there is always a reason for a trigger. And because of that, there is a way to rewire our brain, our heart and our mind!
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Want to catch up with past episodes?
Episode 34 — Justice System of Heaven
https://youtu.be/57pV70H1wdo
Episode 33 — Mother and Father Wounds
https://youtu.be/QJyRP-Ay3b4
Episode 32 — When Broken Is Bo***ge
https://youtu.be/9Xge3iuX1m4
Episode 31 — Costumes of Survival
https://youtu.be/6SF-JV8NO6M
Episode 30 — The Unbelievable Truth
https://youtu.be/ATyCkk8OQIc
Episode 29 — Connection and Protection
https://youtu.be/JXNysgqjyjU
Episode 28 — Formation, Part 1
https://youtu.be/2xZ_vs4Xs2U
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(Reposted from Robert Tucker)

Victory is a choice….

If there is a breadth of life left, there is hope…. and help is available. Don’t wait until it’s too late! 🙏🏻

“I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life…”
Deuteronomy 30:19 (KJV

“Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door…”
Revelation 3:20 (KJV)

Thank you Jesus for providing a way out. Lord, please pull back the vail and let those still spiritually blind… see You for who You really are. Let them experience you! ❤

Our earliest relationships shape how we experience love, safety, connection—and often how we perceive God. When a mother or father could not provide the nurture, protection, affirmation, or attachment we needed, those wounds can remain active inside us long after childhood has ended.

In this class, we explore the mother and father wound through the Inner House model. We look at how unmet needs in the basement form distorted beliefs, how those beliefs develop into survival strategies on the middle floor, and how unresolved trauma can continue affecting our relationships, reactions, identity, and image of God.

But we are not merely products of what happened to us.

God does not ask us to deny our pain, excuse harmful behavior, or remain in toxic relationship systems. He invites us to face the truth of what happened while refusing to remain bound to blame, bitterness, shame, or the need for another person to change before we can heal.

In this teaching, you will learn:

• How mother and father wounds shape attachment and identity
• Why the nervous system can mistake familiarity for safety
• How childhood trauma continues cycling through adult relationships
• The difference between the wounded orphan and the survival strategies built around that pain
• Why awareness is necessary—but awareness alone is not healing
• How unresolved trauma can distort our perception of God
• Why healthy boundaries and honoring our parents are not mutually exclusive
• How guilt and shame keep both wounded children and regretful parents trapped
• Why we do not need another person’s apology or acknowledgment in order to become free
• How connection with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit begins restoring what human relationships could not provide

Your parents may have influenced your human formation, but they do not have the final authority over your identity. You are not your trauma. You are not your worst moment of survival. You are not permanently defined by what someone gave—or failed to give—you.

You are a chosen child of God, invited out of survival and into the safety, love, belonging, and freedom of His Kingdom.

“Even if my father and mother abandon me, the LORD will hold me close.” —Psalm 27:10 NLT

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Episode 33 | Head to Heart | Mother and Father Wounds Our earliest relationships shape how we experience love, safety, co...

How we carry and manage the pain of our past matters more than we could ever imagine. It is the pathway to freedom or the pathway to retaining pain as a way of life.

In a culture where human justice often takes center stage, we can unknowingly partner with a lie—the belief that holding tightly to the injustice will somehow make things right. But that agreement can cause us to retain our trauma rather than become free from it.

There is certainly a level of justice that is necessary, especially when deep violation or physical harm has occurred. That is one reason we have a court system in America. But I am talking about what happens within our hearts when we remain consumed by the question, “But was it fair?”

There are vital keys to Kingdom Living that help us understand why our agreements matter—and why the way we continue to view and carry our past hurts matters.

Trauma can keep us living in the fear, guilt, and shame of the past because our system believes the threat has never been resolved. It is as though the case has remained open and we never received closure. As a result, we may continue reacting and surviving as though the harm is still happening.

Not all of us are holding on to anger toward others. Some of us have chosen to blame ourselves. We spend our lives trapped in self-hatred and self-punishment—and honestly, this can be even more damaging.

It is all a lie—and it is keeping you from freedom!

Today, we will talk about how forgiveness helps us release the past without denying its impact, excusing what happened, or pretending that justice does not matter. Forgiveness opens the door for us to begin moving toward genuine healing and freedom.

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FATHER AND MOTHER WOUNDS
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Please join us this Labor Day for an impactful and life-changing topic.

Our mothers and fathers occupy the most formative human positions in our lives. Through them, we first experience—or fail to experience—love, safety, belonging, protection, and identity.

Facing these wounds is not about blame, pointing fingers, or remaining permanently victimized by what happened. In a world increasingly focused on estrangement as the answer, we want to seek Heaven’s perspective.

Dealing with father and mother wounds requires an honest look at what was offered, what was missing, and how trauma formed around those experiences. There are physiological, mental, emotional, relational, and spiritual consequences. When these wounds remain unresolved, they can unknowingly dictate how we react, survive, relate, and live.

Freedom comes through awareness, grief, forgiveness, and separating our parents from their human limitations. We can stop asking wounded people to fill the place that belongs to God—and allow Him to end cycles of trauma once and for all.

“Even if my father and mother abandon me, the Lord will hold me close.”
—Psalm 27:10 NLT

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